The Secret To A Successful First Date

When it comes to meeting a woman you met online in person, chances are you're going to screw it up if you don't know how to handle real "live dates."
Sure it was easy emailing back and forth as you hide behind a keyboard. There's no way to get rejected because she doesn't really know who you are. You could invent a totally different persona and she wouldn't know any better.
But eventually you're going to HAVE to meet her in person! That is the whole point of meeting women online. Right?
Now it doesn't have to be a nerve wracking experience and if you follow my advice then you'll have no reason to be nervous at all. The key here is framing it as a casual get together with friends and not some formal, professional interview.
I'm going to assume you've been to a few job interviews in your lifetime and I'm sure you'll agree with me that they're NOT fun at all! You have to worry about what suit to wear, what to say, and how to conduct yourself in the best possible manner.
Who needs all that FRICKIN pressure?

Well first meets off the internet are not necessarily about promoting yourself or trying to "impress" her. They're about making sure that rockin chemistry you built up during email exchanges is still there in person. In a sense you need to screen her and make sure she's a suitable partner for you!
You know what that makes you?
It makes you the interviewer and shifts all the pressure to her. And now you can kick back and have some fun.
If you're able to frame first meets like that, then there's NO reason to ever be nervous.
Now a lot of guys ask me;

What do I talk about during a first date?

I get this question ALL THE TIME and it implies that there's this one magical conversation that will make her fall for you instantly and want to see you again and AGAIN!
Well guess what?
That magical conversation DOES NOT EXIST!
It's not what you talk about but rather how you communicate that's important during a first meet.
I've said it over and over and I'll say it again... women are emotional creatures and therefore respond more to - you guessed it - Emotions!
That's why how you communicate is so much more important than simply what subjects you bring up. You want to communicate with confidence and show her that this whole first date thing is "no big deal." Being humorous is the BEST way to do this as it shows you don't take dating women too seriously.


Which of course shows confidence and RAISES your value.


Another way to communicate effectively is to think of it, (as I mentioned above) as a friendly casual meet up with a friend.
Let me ask you... when you get together with some buddies, are you nervous and worried about what to say?
Of course not! You never get nervous around friends because you're already acquainted and know each other really well.
The same holds true with women you meet off the Internet. You already know each other because you corresponded in emails and texts and if you did that right, the attraction should be established.
So there's no reason to be nervous, right?
Now get out there and use these tips to dominate that first date and I GUARANTEE she'll be wanting more of YOU!